spamwell wrote:
seriously peer pressure is bullshit if someone doesn't want to wreck there car then you should respect and leave them be, i have left trips because of people giving me a hard time i don't need that stuff when i am trying to have a good time.
sam
I kinda gently disagree, but it does depend a lot on the group. In our club, we try and run encouraging and supportive trips, but sometimes people need to stretch themselves a bit to either get the best out of their car or take their driving to the next level. Without some good natured encouragement, they would be unlikely to try the harder line and so their skills might not improve.
However, I do respect what people have in their cars $$$ wise so it is important to give relevant advice not just act like the peanut gallery. sometimes though, even for a newbie in a stocker, the best advice is "just drive it"
The pride you see in an inexperienced member when they drive the obstacle rather than the cheat track is cool.
Amongst the guys with bigger cars though, I will give it a lot of "just drive it" because that's when the big moves come out - the lines that didn't look possible.
However, this is in a club environment - and we all have repsect for each other because that's what makes clubs work. I;m not gong to hang it on another member or hurl abuse because I view other members as mates. It's one of the reasons that loose groups tha come together through a board or via a couple of groups of mates who don't know each other etc don't work as well as club trips.
Steve.
[quote="greg"] some say he is a man without happy dreams, or that he sees silver linings on clouds and wonders why they are not platinum... all we know, is he's called the stevie.[/quote]