This is a pretty impossible question...
you could just get a std 30/70 grind cam for that motor, but it is unlikley to be exactly what you want..
In order to get a cam ground to exactly what you want, you will need to know:
Is the motor stock? (without at least some exhaust and computer work a new cam will be pretty useless)
if it has been modified:
Piston to deck height
Type of piston
has the head been shaved
Bigger valves?
rocker arm ratio
compression ratio
any porting work
inlet manifold type
extractor type (likley Tri-y) for a 4x4
primary exhaust runner ID
secondary exhaust runner ID
collector size
exhaust size and muffler type
Vehicle mass and gearing
Required RPM for max torque (the higher this is the narrower the powerband will likley be, but more HP)
what you are trying to achieve with the engine (towing, economy, all out performance ect.)
what % do you use gas/petrol
ect ect.
if your keen try to get as much of this info as possible and speak to a porfesional, ie crow cams.
caminquiry@crowcams.com.au
remember that fitting the cam is a big job and will require a new timing chain. think about $1000 to fit.
if you mostly run on gas, consider gas only, as you can run a higher compression ratio, and get more out of that new cam.
also 4.1 ratio diffs sound a bit high for those tyres, your money may be better spent on 4.3 or 4.6 gears, you will notice a signifigant power increase from this.