Outer Limits 4x4 Board

Ok, I've read most of the previous tech threads. I just want to know what works the best. Nothing that looks good on paper and doesn't work, but stuff that people have tried and works. 1993 Triton V6 is the car. Wanna run say 33's - 35's and want good suspension flex. Where to start, what parts, what gears? Air lockers?

Most of it is in the bible, I would suggest 33s and you sould be able to get them with about a 2 inch suspension lift. Going to 35s your gearing goes out the window, and I cant imagine how slow the 3.0 would be with 35s, I cant stand the speed of mine on 34s and I have a 3.5