Okay, well, it's not too hard but to do it properly you will need to run one power wire from your battery as the standard reverse light wiring is not designed to handle a spotlight.
You will need red wire, black wire (or choose your own colours but do use two), an inline fuse, a typical automotive relay, and a relay base.
Then find the nearest stock reversing light and the wires that go into it.
What you are going to do is tap into the existing reverse light wires and use these to activate the relay. The relay will then act like a switch to turn the spotlight on and off.
To understand the relay: it has four wires. One wire comes from the battery for power. One wire goes to the reverse light to light it up. And two more wires turn the relay on or off.
The first job is to find a spot for the relay that is close to your reversing spotlight but safe from getting wet, dirty, etc. Mount it in place.
Tap into the two wires that run the stock reverse light and connect them to terminals 85 and 86 of the relay.
Run a wire all the way from the battery +ve terminal to terminal 30 of the relay. Include your inline fuse as close to the battery as possible.
Run a wire from the relay's terminal 87 to your reversing spotlight's +ve wire.
Then finally run a black wire from your reversing spotlight's -ve wire to the chassis/body/ground. You will find grounds nearby for the indicators, reverse lights, etc, or even for the towbar plug.
Here is a relay base:
http://www.dse.com.au/cgi-bin/dse.store ... View/P8036
30A relay top suit (more than enough) from the same place, supercheap or wherever:
http://www.dse.com.au/cgi-bin/dse.store ... View/P8035
Inline fuse, connectors to tap into the reverse light wires, etc, all available from supercheap or similar.
The other thing though is that a generic "spotlight wiring kit" will do the job too, instead of using high beam to trip the relay you use a reverse lamp. eg:
http://cgi.ebay.com.au/FOG-SPOT-LED-LIG ... 2c504736fb