
As for buying her a golf, bugger off, this is my car!!

Thanks for the heads-ups on the Hilux Surf .. confirms my worries. Seems these are about the only thing that comes up on carsales etc when I search for diesel auto but I'll keep looking.
Discos might be worth a look.. first thoughts are that they're a bit big or (big-looking) and they're English... the only things the poms can usually be trusted with is warm beer and mushy peas. But I suppose the TDIs are volkswagen engine anyway right?